Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back With Romance: Part I

If you and your girlfriend have broken up and all you can think is “How do I get my girlfriend back” then I have some tips for you that may well help you to get your ex back.

heart balloon graphic for romantic ideas part 1Women LOVE romance, there’s no doubt about it! So assuming that there is still a spark between you, it’s your job to build it up into a roaring fire.

Now this is important!

  • Don’t do any of these things if you and your ex girlfriend have had a bad break up and she has made it clear that she does not want you around. In this case you need to give your girlfriend her space (here’s why), and doing any of these things could make you look like a stalker.
  • These tips are only appropriate if you and your ex are still talking, still close, still friends.

Without further ado, here is Part I of “10 Ways of Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back With Romance”. (Part II is here)

1. Name a Star for Your Girlfriend

There are several agencies that allow you to reach out to the Milky Way and name a star. You’ll be given a beautiful parchment certificate and a star chart with the location of the star now named for your ex girlfriend.

If possible present her with the Certificate and Star Chart in person. If that isn’t practical mail them to her at home or work.

2. Send Her a Special Thank You Letter

Write a thank you letter listing all the things she’s done for you. Something like,

  • Thank you for being the best kisser that ever existed
  • Thank you for making me feel like the luckiest man alive
  • Thank you for helping me to get through the final exams. I couldn’t have done it without you
  • Thank you for helping me when I was sick with the flu…

You get the idea. Now end the letter by saying something like, “How about giving me a chance to pay you back for all you’ve done for me?

If you’ve got fairly decent handwriting (or even if you haven’t!) think about making this a handwritten letter. Actual letters are not so common these days, and show you’ve really made an effort, which is pretty romantic in itself. Of course if your writing’s not so good, use the computer but show you’ve spent time on it by adding some special graphics.

3. Make a Video for Your Ex

Sit down in front of a camera and make a video of yourself apologizing for everything you might have done to cause the break up. Be sincere but keep it light and smile.

The idea here is to show how much you care without being a sniveling wreck – an embarrassment to her and yourself! Post the video on YouTube and then send her an email with the URL.

4. Wow Her With a Balloon Bouquet Surprise

Have a bunch of helium balloons printed with a special message for your ex girlfriend. Something funny is best, like, “It Makes Glen Smile…”, then a happy face and “…. Just Thinking About Michelle”.

Tie the balloon bouquet to a post or fence or on her car – somewhere your ex is sure to see it. This works best if you know a bit about your ex girlfriend’s schedule.

5. Send Your Ex Girlfriend a Top Ten List

Write out a funny Top Ten list of reasons that you and your ex should get back together, the top ten things that make her special – whatever you like. Keep it light. Make it read something like,

Top 10 Reasons Michelle Should Get Back Together With Glen:

Reason 10: Glen’s friends will think he’s an idiot if he loses a girl as wonderful as Michelle.

Reason 9: When he’s with Michelle, even Glen is good looking.

Reason 8:

Once you have your list, text or email it to your ex girlfriend – one per day.

Now remember, don’t do any of these things if there is a lot of anger surrounding the break up of you and your ex. You do not want to come off as a stalker, or simply not respecting her need for some space at this time.

So there you go – five romantic ideas.

But I’m not done yet! For five more romantic ideas, continue on to Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back with Romance – Part II.

If you’d like way more romantic ideas, Michael Webb’s “Getting Her Back for Good” ebook plan comes with a free bonus: “101 Romantic Ideas”.

For more details, read our Getting Her Back Review or skip to his website (opens in a new window).